Renee and Jagger

The Parent
Renee

Q: What was it like being filmed 24/7, knowing that your words and actions were being monitored?      

A: It was a very strange experience.  It was uncomfortable at times, especially when I would do something, such as wake up and get out of bed, and before I was fully awake I would hear a small robotic metal sound, which was the camera following my stride across the room.  It was an eye opener to say the least.  Also, following any dialogue or activity, all the cameras would buzz as they rotated and gathered focus on my words and actions.

Q: Were there any cultural differences in working with Dr. Tanya and the production crew that you needed to overcome?

A: Not really. Certain terms had to be defined, but for the most part it was fun.

Q: What was the most memorable moment during your week in the house?

A: I have two: 1) Completing the puzzle activity with Jagger.  He still talks about it, too! The heart-shaped puzzle piece tugged at my heart.  2) Jagger sleeping in his own bed for the very first time!

Q: What is the biggest lesson that you learned from Dr. Tanya? Have you seen a difference in your family structure and your relationship with your children since the show?

A: To be completely present, and to be aware of all body and facial expression when delivering my messages. I am quite animated at times and consider myself to be a very good communicator; when it was demonstrated to me on the screen how my inconsistent tones and expressions were confusing to Jagger, I had a definite “aha” moment.

Q: Overall, what do you think of the experience?

A: I don’t recommend it for the meek!  I found it very stressful and helpful at the same time.  I allowed myself to be totally exposed, which is quite painful.  It is unbelievably difficult, knowing that on one hand I am getting the assistance I am desperately seeking, while at the same time being well aware that pieces of my experiences will be interpreted, edited and presented to the public by other people.    I did this during a very vulnerable time in my life, but I went in to it with a commitment to reap the most from the experience with someone as talented as Tanya.  Six days, 24/7, is a lot of time to be under a magnifying glass, subject to both criticism and support.  Having six days to completely focus on my child alone was incredible and invaluable.  Where in America can a parent have the expertise of someone like Tanya to help them achieve results in such a short time?  At a point in my life when I truly needed help and did NOT know what to do, regardless of the public part, I did walk away with an extraordinary experience and many tools that have helped me to build a stronger foundation with Jagger.  My focus and my heart are on my son; that is why this experience happened, and that is where my focus will continue to be as this show is aired to the public. 

Q: Has your life changed since filming the show?  If yes, then how? 

A: Yes. Jagger’s response to my authority has improved greatly. He is potty trained and continues to sleep in his own bed! He and I have a lot of fun together, and at the same time he responds to me more quickly.  Keep in mind, it is always a work in progress!

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