People, regardless of whether they are a man or a woman, want to feel special and valued for who they are. Creating romance in our relationship is a wonderful way to help our partners know that we are not taking them for granted. Here are some practical tips to help you re-create that spark that’s missing in your relationship. 

The bottom line is romance is important. And it doesn’t have to take a lot of time or money to make it happen!  Try some of the tips below to shake things up.

* Make a date! Set a side time to be together as a couple.

* Do something different with each other like give your partner a special welcome home. Have the music going, greet them at the door with a loving kiss and a hug.

* Get your partner a small "just because" gift. 

* Create a massage night.

* Go away for a romantic weekend with your partner.

* Re-create the first time you met each other.

* Send sexy messages to your partner so he or she has something to look forward to when they get home.

* Be thoughtful.

* Really listen to one another.

* Share a dream or fantasy you have never told anyone before.

* Dress up and return to your “sexy” self.  

* Write a love letter to your spouse letting him/her know all of the reasons why you love them and appreciate them.

* Create a holiday just for the two of you and then find new ways to celebrate it on a regular basis.