Why did you choose your gown?
It met the three most important components that I wanted in a wedding dress. The dress that I chose had one of the most unique and intricate beading designs, which was accented by tons of sparkling beads and crystals; the dress was very light and breathable, because of the material used (tulle); and lastly it shaped me perfectly -- it even made me look two sizes slimmer!
In addition to choosing my main wedding dress, I was also interested in looking for another dress to change into during the middle of the night. I made the decision to buy a second dress a whim, but I knew I wanted a dress that was much more snug and slim fitting to end the night in. Obviously, it had to be consistent with the first gown, which had tons of sparkling beads and a beautiful design. Both dresses were absolutely perfect!
Did you stay within your budget?
It is very important to set a budget, especially for your wedding dress, but sometimes a budget can be overlooked when you see that perfect dress. I needed to have a reasonable justification for not staying within my budget! My parents offered to purchase my dress, and they gave me a budget to stay within. But, as selfish as this sounds, it truly could have been any price as long as I got the perfect gown for my wedding day. I was the type of bride who got carried away when trying on dresses -- hence the second dress! Budget? What budget?
What was the hardest part about shopping for a dress?
Dress shopping was most definitely time consuming, but besides my having to keep a focused eye when surrounded and overwhelmed by tons of dresses, it was very enjoyable. Also, you have to consider the opinions of the friends and family you bring dress shopping with you; sometimes you may think a dress looks amazing on you, but it may not. In such cases, you should rely on the opinions of those who mean the most to you. However, the excitement of getting married is about much more than stressing over finding the perfect dress. The perfect dress is out there -- it's just a matter of time and finding it. Some brides find it on their first outing, and others find it on their fourth trip.
Did you have any meltdowns?
I think my maid of honor had more of a meltdown than I did. I guess dragging her to the fifth boutique in one day could have done that. In all seriousness, I was very calm and collected about the entire wedding-dress shopping process. But hiccups are expected during wedding planning, especially when you have so many people involved and wishes to consider. At times problems arose, but I knew with patience and calmness, it would all work itself out -- which it did!
What tips would you give to brides-to-be?
- The planning process can easily get you carried away. Most importantly, remember your fiance in the stressful times. He's your support, comfort, resolution and calmness, and will continue to be there for you throughout your marriage. Why not start now?
- I would strongly suggest hiring a wedding planner to organize, keep the planning process on track and provide insightful tips overall. If you cannot afford one, remember that the key to a successful wedding is organization. Map out your vision and organize your ideas, all the down to the details of your wedding. And, most importantly, delegate! You cannot do everything yourself!
- Most importantly, make sure you have a vision. Know what you want -- indecisiveness can create unnecessary expenses, possibly sidetrack your planning process and waste time.
Remember your husband-to-be in the stressful times. Marriage will bring numerous challenges in which you will have to work together to overcome obstacles and compromise. Why not start now? For comfort, resolution and calmness, lean on him for extra support.
