TIPS FROM EPISODE 1 (The Tanjutcos)
1. Be sure to put the new rules in a place where you can always see them. It will hold you more accountable.
2. Make sure to have a structured activity. It will help your children focus and allow you to spend quality time with them.
3. As your children get older, it is important that they understand the idea of boundaries, rather than simply being constrained.
4. If your child becomes completely irrational, it may be that they are overtired and just need a nap.
5. Be consistent with your routines, or your children will know the routine isn’t real.
TIPS FROM EPISODE 2 (The Berks)
1. Allowing your children to help make family rules will involve them, and hold them more responsible.
2. Get your children to complete everyday chores by using positive reinforcement.
3. Be sure your children understand that there will be consequences for bad behavior.
TIPS FROM EPISODE 3 (The McCarthys)
1. Clear and simple family rules posted in a central location hold children and their parents accountable.
2. When teaching your children about safety, it’s helpful to make the lesson fun!
3. Keep the lesson on your child’s level. It will be easier for them to understand.
4. Always use positive reinforcement. Kids want to behave when they know it pleases you.
TIPS FROM EPISODE 4 (The Gils)
1. Children should be assigned household chores that are age-appropriate.
2. Don’t just give your children an allowance; make them earn it by completing chores.
3. Don’t comfort your children while you discipline them: it sends a mixed message.
4. Don’t assume your children know how to handle their younger siblings – they probably do not. Take time to teach them the proper way.
TIPS FROM EPISODE 5 (The DiSomma-Faretras)
1. Don’t overwhelm children with too many rules. Focus on what is important, and stay consistent.
2. Ignoring a tantrum puts you in control and doesn’t encourage bad behavior.
3. Be sure your children clearly know there will be consequences if they don’t do what is asked of them.
4. Always use positive reinforcement. Kids want to behave when they know it pleases you.
TIPS FROM EPISODE 6 (The Monteliones)
1. Limit your children’s choices. It will allow you to be in control while keeping them happy.
2. Never let a small child hold a baby unsupervised. They may not be strong enough to do so safely.
3. Teach your children to peacefully resolve their conflicts. Otherwise, they may bring harmful behavior into your home.
4. When starting any new routine, be clear about your expectations so your children understand the goal.
TIPS FROM EPISODE 7 (The Virgas)
1. Once you set the rules, get your children involved in posting them in a central location. It will keep everyone accountable.
2. When trying to improve your child’s focus, use a game to help hold their attention.
TIPS FROM EPISODE 8 (The Tsouos)
1. Limit your children’s choices, and do not negotiate
2. Children are more likely to do chores if you make the chores fun and exciting.
3. Role-playing can be an effective way to reinforce manners with children.
4. When disciplining your children, talk to them on their level, and be firm without raising your voice.
TIPS FROM EPISODE 9 (The Bells)
1. Get your children involved when making new rules. And remember to hold them accountable if they break them.
2. Children need structured playtime as well as free time. It helps them to focus on specific tasks.
3. Practicing proper manners with your children is essential. It will teach them respect, and encourage them to be more social.
4. Don’t forget to include your older children. They will help set an example for their younger siblings.
TIPS FROM EPISODE 10 (The Hanneman-Scotts)
1. Encourage your children to use their words. When you put a stop to mumbling and whining, it helps kids develop communication skills.
2. Tantrums should be addressed immediately. When your children know their behavior won’t be tolerated, you’ll prevent future meltdowns.
